If I broke a rule and knew that I disappointed my Dominant, I would need to have a discussion about what happened, why I shouldn’t break the rule, why the punishment happened, and that I am still loved and cared for. I made a bad choice, I am not a bad girl. While it looks different than post-playtime aftercare, that bit of reassurance and reconnection allows me to have time to improve and remember he is still there for me. Rewards Well the offer of rubbing and spanking that beautiful bottom had been made and she was clearly and vocally enjoying everything I had to give and so who was I to deny it! Such an amazing experience for me and it was not over yet by a long shot. I was married five years ago, at the age of sixteen. My husband is very tender and loving and manages so that I not do the slightest work; but ever since the first moment of our marriage I have been compelled to obey him absolutely, though he is just a boy. One month after we were married he spanked me thoroughly because I returned five minutes after the time he had set for my return from a shopping expedition. He has punished me in this way for the slighest disobedience ever since. On one occcasion he made me kneel on the floor. Last week I remonstrated with him and begged him to treat me as a woman. He hushed me with kisses, but warned me never to touch upon the subject again, and I am afraid to. I cannot go on in this way and as a last resort, I ask the advise of of your readers. I have no parents and have absolutely no one to whom I can appeal. I commented earlier, I started getting spanked after ten years of marriage. I've got it with his belt only a few times for more serious stuff. Wow it stings!

Keeping a sub’s emotions “controlled” might help them be more obedient as a submissive by allowing them to have more steady emotions. When a sub can assist their dominant in achieving orgasm, they feel helpful and needed. Things they find pleasurable- The Dominant should find out things that submissive would like to try or things that she really likes and give her more of that as a reward Maybe it’s something as easy as allowing her to masturbate while taking a hot bath or as elaborate as a spa day being pampered. Be creative with this one. As a submissive, when I hear these things, it helps me relax. It helps me trust. It helps me see myself the way my Dom sees me. I want to please him, and when I please him, he rewards me. And that thrills me more than anything. He has me and it makes me want to do more to please him. I’m delighted and fulfilled when he is happy with me.

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All relationships have to maintain the Sub Maintenance activities constantly. To perform Sub Maintenance, it maintains certain activities in the relationship that allows for those involved, the dominant and the submissive, to increase communication between them and maintain satisfaction with both of them. The Auntie you're staying with for the summer, and is determined to instill some discipline in you. She's not going to have you breaking curfew anymore.

Lucie is absolutely adorable. Opportunities to meet a spankee are few and far between in my life and I have never had the desire to return to any of my few previous encounters. But Lucie is diffetent. Intelligent, pretty, intuitive and moreover great company. She handles both the physical and the emotional side of spanking superbly – a natural. Withholding orgasm- The submissive will not be allowed to have an orgasm for a certain period of time. I went on about my day, got into my work, and didn’t realize the amount of time that passed. Until I got the above mentioned text, which popped up on my computer screen. Lucie thank you. You made one of my lifelong dreams come true and I look forward to your company again someday. I can tell that you are really *trying* and that as each day goes by, and when your Husband tells you how happy he is with you, it will make YOU so much happier as well, and hopefully, it will help you to be more obedient and submissive to your Husband!Hot day, Kana undressed entirely for spanking (Or undressing in front of "Target", or in front of whole class), cuz too hot and the air conditioners were deliberately broken by someone, but everyone thinks that they broke themselves, and all for the sake of seeing Kana's charms, and it's more likely to be the one who will be "punished"by Kana

About once a month we would go antique shopping with the goal of finding a new spanking implement and then we would hurry home to give it a try. Once a spanking was announced I had to strip and remain naked until she decided it was the time and this often meant I was around the house naked for several hours until she decided it was time for my spanking. I have a journal that my HOH expects me to write in everyday. I'm to put all of my feelings in it, if I've done something I'm not supposed to do, whatever is going on inside of me. I was originally going to do a roleplay but we kept it really simple to help her get what she wanted from it too, ive spanked girls who have cried before but never spanked someone who wanted spanking specifically so she could cry and I’m so glad to have had the opportunity, i havent felt so close to someone for a long time then I felt with lucie doing this for her. But what is life (and sex) like for a woman who is firmly entrenched in the BDSM community as a submissive? Well, according to one sub called Monieau, it’s far from what misconceptions and stereotypes would lead outsiders to believe. My parents, to this day, believe that nudity and humiliation were part of breaking my will of disobedience. To ask them, they'd do it all the same again.

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Some girl went toKana's office, and asked her for Hard spanking in Punishment Room, not for punishment ofc, but her butt was tingling so much that she couldn't take it anymore, self spanking with brush at home was not enough We were very much disgusted when we read in "The Evening World" a letter written by a Brooklyn mother. She says she spanks her daughter-in-law. What kind of a woman is she that would let her her husband"s mother expose and and make her kneel down on the floor and use a rattan on her. It is bad enough to hear about the husband treating his wife that way, but when it comes to the mother-in-law we think it is time to stop. We would be pleased to hear from the daughter- in- law, and let us know how she likes spanking and what the sensation is like . If we daughters-in-law only knew "Brooklyn Mother's" reception day, we might pay her a visit and use the rattan until she had to go to the hospital for a month or two. We advise all daughters-n-law to take the above receipt from. If we would live our lives by the way the Bible talks about, and follow God, we wouldn't have the BS we have in this country as much as we do. Marriage is the same way. If men would follow their role and encourage women to follow theirs, and women would follow their role and encourage men to live theirs as the Bible direct us to live, we wouldn't have all of this divorce. And it's a man's right under God to keep Authority in his home. As the church, the body of Christ, obeys Christ as our husband, the wife should obey her husband. And as Christ does, whether you believe it or not, but does discipline his bride, Believers in Jesus Christ, the husband has the right to discipline his wife. What good is having Authority if you can't use it. Christ will use his authority on us, especially during judgment. Therefore the husband has a right to use his authority, and even spank his wife when she disobeys. Don't like it, it doesn't matter. the Bible is the only opinion that matters, Maintenance Spanking - 1st thing in the morning at school, or long and thorough spanking after school. Punishment or, more preferably, wet spanking