At times our comparison's got to the place where we would play, "can you top this" with our experiences. I’m tempted to self-destroy my life just to show my parents how badly the messed up raising me (Although that would be pointless because my brothers are doing that for me.

It was also true if I went away with my friend or he with me and we were bad we were punished by the parent who was watching us. I could go out like this and most people would think I was already fully dressed,” I must have said to my sister a hundred times as a teen–before pulling a skirt or jumper over my loose-fitting shirt. My mother’s voice is soft when she explains that, in the Bible, God says children need to obey their parents.Noo …I mean yes” Karen wept as she jerked forward into Mom’s thigh from the impact of the harsh implement. He went right back to work at my right side, this time aiming lower and whipping my tender sit-spots and upper thighs. I was not privileged to witness the spanking, but I did later see the deep crimson marks that Uncle left across Cedric’s buttocks and the back of his legs.

Sure it may not affect every child this way, but if it does affect your child that way you will probably never know and never be able to even say you are sorry much less make it right. I heard what she was asking me to do, and my head told my body to bend over so she could get to the zipper, but my back went rigid. For fun, for discipline, or just because; we will dive in together to the world and spanking and have some fun discussing the various aspects of it together! That meant bending over, perhaps touching one’s toes, or possibly draping oneself over a piece of furniture, such as that armchair or the desk in Uncle’s study.They tell me it was done to them or it wasn’t so bad and that they deserved it and so do their own children. The rules that applied to others did not apply to him, at least not when we had been defiant or lazy, or had spoken out of turn.